We turn to the Serenity Prayer to help us determine what is under our control and what is not—and then tend to those matters we can, relying on available resources and assistance. It's just different for me. Thank you for taking the time to read and leave a comment/inquiry. We pray that we ourselves are liberated from the fears that rule our narrowness of thought, for faith is broader than religion.When we parents are confronted with an adult child who decides to go in a different direction, we are often glibly told, “Let go!”In letting go, we are eloquently enumerating our beliefs: We are recognizing that God is active in all our lives. It sounds like you laid a good foundation for him and he'll be fine. I appreciate your visit and generous comments.I am struggling so much with my now 15-year old daughter wanting to "grow up". That dependency gives parents purpose and fulfillment. It’s ended up being long winded!Temptation and pressure attack you all dayHa ha, thanks for that, Mhatter. I will always be. They will point you to hope. The Bible says, “The son will not share the guilt of the father, nor will the father share the guilt of the son” (Ezekiel 18:20).At the same time, don’t give up praying for your children, no matter how old they are. It broke the hearts of countless people in our community. We parents should do likewise—our children are not to be images of us.”Desire to control may linger out of habit, for we’ve had responsibility for this child for many years. From the time children are old enough to know right from wrong, parents need to be instilling in them the fact that they must answer to God for their moral decisions. I commend Dave and Paul for writing so insightfully and sympathetically---with biblical conviction---on this complex and controversial topic. You only have control over how you engage with her and how you respond. It also lets them see that you can set boundaries with them and not let them continue to take you for granted. Raising a child is an act of faith into the forever-future. Their counsel would be wisely heeded, so that we might learn to love our prodigals in a way that directs them toward the Father's open arms. Help?Is the difficulty some parents have letting their children grow up a real thing?And when you need to, slow your paceIt's hard not to worry, no matter how old they get. They also don’t want to follow the rules or listen to me at all or even speak while staying in my house, not paying any bills or anything. Then, we believed in all innocence and ignorance, when our child reached adulthood, our parenting responsibilities would be completed. I won't hold my son back because I'm scared of him growing up. She’s told lies about me and my husband and forever quits jobs. I appreciate your visit.Keep you safe from danger and strife I suggest you discuss with a family counselor how to blend the best of both parenting styles instead of feeling at odds. The relationship? Glad you stopped by.I want to protect you all your lifeWhat you're going through is normal. Letting go is by far the hardest and most challenging aspect of parenting. I have telecommuted to work his entire life. I met him at a period when they were abroad. Let her know.Carefully carving out your worthYou're welcome, swilliams. We shouldn’t guilt-tripping ourselves for their choices either. I wish you success in your parenting as you move to the next phase of parenthood.The increased reports in the media of violence in public school classrooms, on college campuses, and in places of recreation add to the gut-wrenching fears parents have when faced with having to let go of their children.My 18 yr old and 1st to leave nest went off to university in Sept and then told us he was going travelling for Christmas/New year. I don't know if this will work for you, but it might be worth a shot.Thanks for liking the poem, tobusiness. Our daughter is getting another divorce. How do I get past this stage?I appreciate your feedback, Anita Saran. When we consider that nearly twenty years of our lives are invested in raising, nurturing, and caring for a child, it’s easy to see why letting go of that role is a daunting task. When our child wanders astray, God never forbids that child’s return but instead promises an open welcome.Our fears may also be of matters quite practical.
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