One of her tactics is to make sure I cannot prove whats really going on to anyone else. Sorry, this product is unavailable. Mine may be a bit less of a crazy-maker but so much of what you said hits home.
Imagine this narcissist telling a doctor that you hit HIM and the doctor believes him.PS. 1. You don't know anything about me or the way i raise my children. She replies that she dont recognice what Im talking about and wont "take my shit" Then she sends a good night txt with smileyfaces on it. I am free now and it's wonderfull. So, in short, he suppresses my anger and tells me that I shouldn't say what bothers me "because everything bothers me" and if he said everything that bothers him "there would be no marriage". Im not sorry for her and that does not make me a bad person. He creates cunning double binds, where if I say no he retaliates saying " but I am here now" "I am not the one asking for divorce" or "You only came out of the house by yourself", when in fact, as everyone knows how hard it is to live with a physical abuser, What good is a "But I am here now" when his actions prove otherwise. How crazy do you think you are? I have been back and forth on this issue.
It is so liberating to get to know yourself, maybe, of the first time.
Overall, he is keeping more promises than he used to but it is the INCONSISTENCY and UNRELIABILITY that keeps me on uneven ground.
10 Questions | By Sophiepoulsen | Last updated: May 27, 2020 | Total Attempts: 33155 . "I figure she can deny it all she wants. Because when the discussion about his hittings and his bad actions come, he says " I do not recollect that happening", but when it comes to something of his interest, he remembers each and everything I did, and throws them at me.She's done more damage to my life than i can possibly express" --That's true.I know it is relational - I pursue, he withdraws. Many people can be termed as crazy, but it all depends on how it is delivered. The evidence suggests that most people summon strengths that surpass their own expectations. he is making the effort to be more reliable - still not all the way there because he still makes promises that he doesn't keep (1) if he changes his mind or (2) if it becomes too "hard". They followed him to my brother’s house and shot him in the head before he could even get out of his car. And the other person walks away blameless. Here are a couple of links that could help - even if it's not some of their advice is very adaptable. If the daughter hadn't had help she probably would have been reported for elder abuse.In December I flew up to take care of my mother and sister (my mother's care giver and enabler) who broke her arm badly. I lost my husband to cancer almost 7 years ago. There is a book by Harville Hendrix that I would highly recommend called "Keeping the Love You Find."
You WILL be fine.
Say that five times fast and you might go crazy! But they do!I am trying to "back off" and not be a nag which is helping him feel less bombarded and leading to kinder behavior but it's so hard when the slightest thing can lead to him accusing me of being a nag and ruining his life.
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